Apparently the most hated, dreaded name in the world history is of Adolf Hitler. But could that hatred & gory history stop Eva Braun from loving the hated man. Eva Braun-----The girl who was 23 yrs younger to him.....The girl he never accepted publicly......The girl who snapped every ties to be with him.....The girl who was his mistress for 12 yrs & wife for 40 hrs.......BUT, most importantly the girl who ended her life for & with him. NOW, this is the snippets of the article i read recently, which again fuelled my curiosity as to what LOVE is?
TrueLOVE is loving the good or bad / or any, just unconditionally?
Can loving the bad with same intensity be good (or vice versa)?
What could have made Eva took her life, when she knew that his political powers are over & moreover she is not accepted part of his life & not the least, she was almost the age of his daughter.
Can this be termed "Attraction....fatal one for that matter....or selfless surrendering of one's soul like Mirabai to Lord Krishna?
We all believe Mirabai's act as love & whereas today any women loving some other man than the one she is married to, is called an Extra Marital.
How do we define it & who defines it?
I have always believed that we all have twin soul, with whom one may meet in the lifetime or not, but always craves for one.
Opinions , Good , Bad....all trails behind, when...The "desire".......which is sinful in puritanical terms, but, are the most fulfilled moments in life.
LOVE, cant be good or bad either.........How on earth are you ever going to explain in terms of chemistry and physics so important a biological phenomenon as first love? (Albert Einstein)
The way I see the glass "today"...
ReplyDeleteWho told you Hitler was bad....TV?
next time try understanding the world that was around him...he was born at the time when every country was into colonization...and for the "love" of his own country..he turned aggressive then being defensive...he was a strong man who made it to the top all by himself...so strong that no country dared to face him alone, including the superpower America...so the whole world turned on him all at once...he was determined the way he saw the glass...and the whole world was afraid of that...he lost in the end and that gave everyone the chance to prove him a bad...may be eva knew him better then you...don't you think that...
another view... the thing about love..Practical..
Love just cant survive "the bad" sometime one may see the bad before marriage and sometimes after that...ppl turn blind eyes to "the bad" before marriage and as soon as they realize that it dies... and I am sure you must have seen it dyeing somewhere or the other...
if a guy is actually "bad / ugly" its true no girl will love him "knowing" about that.
well in my view...if the great thing known as love can't even win a heart then its factually certain that its powerless. I had it that way...been there..
twin soul theory..na..its randomness..thats the reason it never works every times...randomness is something even Einstein couldn't explain..
Carve for one....
its human we always want what others have,its conditioned, even after knowing about it, and no matter how hard we try, sooner or later it always takes us over..
"No one loves devil because evil in him is BAD"...
ReplyDelete"Nothing is unconditional, we all are conditioned for that"..
Good Guru.....u said it all.....but, i think when u read my blog, you always miss the idea behind it.....here i am certainly not judging the man as good /bad, but just presenting the general view of the person n "the thing called Love".
ReplyDeleteHave u not read the line....."Opinions, good , bad all trails behind".......which means that one doesnt love the opinion & aura of someone, BUT the person (in its truest form).
There may be several circumstances for the public form that one becomes, but the core heart will always remains the same, and when that is identified by someone like Eva...anyone like Hitler is the most celebrated lover........Hope you get it this time.....
'one doesnt love the opinion & aura of someone, BUT the person (in its truest form).'
ReplyDeletewhat defines a person miss tanu?
a person in its truest form....a person is what he does...he does things as per his perceptions...the perceptions he build from his learning...which defines his attitude...personality....traits.."opinion"
if not what defines a person miss tanu?
Remember.....There are two sides of a coin....n both the sides are its own....inseperable.......Head & Tail........Can u define a coin just a HEAD or TAIL.....its both........life is not a rule.....its not a science...its both Science & Art....dear MBA guru :))
ReplyDeletehow is that related to my question??
ReplyDeletelet me tell you about one rule in the art of argument...
You must be able to relate it to something you or the other one said before!!
" two sides of a coin" how is that related to my straight question?
i think u gat a good prospective at aaj tak news channel....
even they say just anything...they will find u good..take my advice on it....lol
The answer & the "coin" thing is directly related to what you asked for.....only if can read between lines.....trying it again.....not everytime we are the same person as what we are perceived to be by lot many.....We have to deal differently with the same situation with different people involved.....thats the coin......
ReplyDelete"We have to deal differently with the same situation with different people involved "
ReplyDeletebut why if my friend is doing some thing wrong i can tell him not to do it... and if my father is doing the same i can't...thats DS...and u call it 2 sides of the coin...clever
The approach can be different....we may not talk / behave the same way...dats all...
ReplyDelete"women loving some other man than the one she is married to, is called an Extra Marital".
ReplyDeleteWhy you think any man or woman would do such a thing?
1. They got unsatisfied desires. The ones which must have been satisfied by the one they married.
2. Its evident they married a wrong person.
3. O man...they did it all wrong. Wrong choice ,if they made it themselves...... even wrong if they didn't. I mean if someone else made it for them.
4. Only Possible outcome: Marriage failure.
suggestion:
Availability is a strong reason to let go...
Blahhhhhhhhhh :))
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